Mike
Shreve was a teacher of yoga at four universities. (The portrait above was
drawn by one of his students in 1970.) Then a spiritual rebirth brought
him into a real relationship with God and drastically changed his heart,
his life and his belief system. Read his story here.
Prayer is a valuable
asset to the believer. As such, prayer should be our first resource not our last
resort. It is the key to the heart of God that unlocks all of the resources of
heaven.
President Abraham
Lincoln during the dark days of the Civil War era stated, “I have been
driven many times to my knees by the overwhelming conviction that I had nowhere
else to go.” Prayer enables us to tap into a supernatural power source
when human effort is insufficient. King David expressed it this way, “Hear
my cry, O God; attend unto my prayer. From the end of the earth will I cry unto
thee, when my heart is overwhelmed: lead me to the rock that is higher than
I.” (Psalm 61:1-2)
On one occasion,
Jesus’ disciples approached Him with a simple request, “Lord, teach us to
pray…” (Luke 11:1) In response, Jesus gave them a pattern prayer (a
sample, a model, an outline), not so much to be memorized and recited
repetitiously or mechanically, but as a guide to the proper method of
approaching God. We will examine that prayer a little later.
What is prayer?
Simply put, prayer is
talking to (the act of communion with) God. Prayer doesn’t have to be lengthy,
fancy or shrouded in religious verbiage, it just needs to be sincere and from
the heart. God spoke to Moses and vice versa “face to face, as a
man speaketh unto his friend.” (Exodus 33:11) A relationship is
only as strong as its communication and our relationship with God is facilitated
through prayer. Prayer, however, should be a two-way conversation—a dialogue
not a monologue. Tennis provides a helpful analogy. You cannot play tennis with
one player very well. Someone must return the ball once you hit it over the net.
So it is with prayer. There should be give and take. Once we have poured out our
heart to God, we should wait and be quiet in His presence and listen for His
answer.
The Practice of
Prayer:
Prayer should be as
normal to the believer as eating and sleeping. The Reformer Martin Luther said, “To
be a Christian without prayer is no more possible than to be alive without
breathing.” Prayer should not be just a crutch in a crisis, but a
consistent lifestyle.
How often should we
pray? The Psalmist David wrote, “Evening, and morning,
and at noon, will I pray…” (Psalm 55:16) The
Prophet Daniel had a similar regimen, “Daniel kneeled upon his knees three
times a day, and prayed, and gave thanks before his God.” (Daniel
6:10) Paul raised the bar even higher when he instructed us to “Pray
without ceasing.” (I Thessalonians 5:17) In other words, always remain in
an attitude or mindset of prayer. So prayer should not only be a daily
discipline but an open-ended and ongoing conversation between us and God.
The Purpose of Prayer:
The purpose of prayer
is not to inform God for “your Father knoweth what things ye have
need of, before ye ask him.” (Matthew 6:8) Rather, it is to invite
God to be involved in every aspect of our lives. The Lord’s Prayer in
Matthew’s Gospel (6:9-13) is only 66 words long. In this pattern prayer given
to His disciples, Jesus outlined several important purposes for prayer:
To perpetuate a relationship: “Our
Fatherwhich art in heaven…”
The term Father
indicates a relationship. So prayer is a vehicle through which we can nurture
and maintain close fellowship with God. We do not pray to a distant,
impersonal force out in the universe, but to our intimate, loving, heavenly
Father.
To praise God’s name: “Hallowed
be Thy name…”
The word hallowed
means to make holy, to sanctify, to venerate or consecrate. Notice the prayer
begins with praise. The proper way to approach God is with an attitude of
gratitude. “Enter into His gates with thanksgiving, and into his courts
with praise…” (Psalm 100:4)
To promote God’s kingdom &
will: “Thy kingdom come, Thy will be done in earth as it is in
heaven…”
God’s will is for
all humanity to be saved. His kingdom is His rule, dominion or authority.
Prayer helps facilitate the fulfillment of God’s will and the advancement of
His kingdom in the earth.
To petition God for personal
needs: “Give us this day our daily bread…”
Pay attention to the
all-inclusive words our, us and we, used eight times in
this pattern prayer. This is not a selfish, exclusive prayer; it is inclusive
of the needs of others. Certainly we should present our own personal needs in
prayer. But the key to having our needs met is often interceding for the needs
of others—“And the LORD turned the captivity of Job, when he
prayed for his friends.” (Job 42:10)
To pardon us of sin: “Forgive
us our debts, as we forgive our debtors…”
A true prayer of
confession garners forgiveness. However, our capacity to receive forgiveness
hinges on our willingness to extend it. Jesus expressed this principle in the
beautiful Beatitude, “Blessed are the merciful: for they shall obtain
mercy.” (Matthew 5:7)
To prevent us from falling &
protect us from evil: “Lead us not into temptation but deliver us
from evil…”
Either prayer will
keep us from sinning or sin will keep us from praying! “Watch and pray,
that ye enter not into temptation: the spirit indeed is willing, but
the flesh is weak.…” (Matthew 26:41) Prayer keeps us strong in
order to resist temptation and sensitive to the Holy Spirit to help us shun
the very appearance of evil.
To praise God again: “For
Thine is the kingdom, and the power, and the glory, forever, amen.”
Notice how this
prayer starts and ends with praise. I call it a “praise sandwich” because
the petitions are “sandwiched” between two periods of praise. So the
proper way to pray is to begin with praise and finish with praise for what God
has done and will do.
The Power of Prayer
John Wallace wrote, “Prayer
moves the hand that moves the world.” Prayer places all the resources of
heaven at your disposal. The value and power of prayer is immeasurable. “The
effectual fervent prayer of a righteous man availeth much.” (James 5:16)
The scriptures are replete with examples of how prayer turned the tide in the
favor of God’s people:
The cry of Israel moved God to
deliver them from slavery in Egypt—Exodus. 2:23.
The prayer of Elijah shut up the
rains for three and a half years. Then, when he prayed again, God restored
the rain—James 5:17-18.
The desperate prayer of Hannah
produced a son—I Samuel 1:12-20.
Prayers of repentance spawned a
city-wide revival in Nineveh and postponed the judgment of God—Jonah
3:8-10.
The New Testament church was
birthed out of a prayer meeting—Acts 1:14.
Prayers of Jesus and the apostles
healed the sick and raised the dead.
The prayer of Paul and Silas
brought an earthquake to a Philippian jail—Acts 16:25-26.
Numerous other examples
could be sited. The power of prayer has and can literally change the course of
history. “If my people, which are called by my name, shall
humble themselves, and pray, and seek my face, and turn
from their wicked ways; then will I hear from heaven, and will forgive their
sin, and will heal their land.” (2 Chronicles 7:14)
Pointers for Prayer:
Pray periodically: “And when
thou prayest…” (Matthew 6:5) Notice Jesus said when not if
you pray. Make prayer a habit that you engage in periodically throughout
your daily routine.
Pray without pretense: “And
when thou prayest, thou shalt not be as the hypocrites are: for they love to
pray standing in the corners of the streets, that they may be seen
of me.” (Matthew 6:5) Motives matter to God. The purpose of
prayer is not to impress people or appear religious but to draw close to and
make a spiritual connection with the God of the universe.
Pray in private: “But
thou, when thou prayest, enter into thy closet and when
thou hast shut thy door, pray to thy father which is in secret:
and thy father which seeth in secret shall reward thee openly.”
(Matthew 6:6) Corporate prayer is desirable at certain times and there is
power in having others agree with you in prayer (Matthew 18:19). But the
real secret to prayer is secret prayer! The word translated closet in
the above verse is from a Greek word meaning “bed chamber”, a place
where husband and wife share intimacy. A married couple will say things in
private they would never say otherwise. Likewise, when you get alone with
God, you will share things out of your heart that you wouldn’t with other
people in earshot.
Pray differently than pagans: “But
when ye pray, use not vain repetitions as the heathen do:
for they think that they shall be heard for their much speaking.”
(Matthew 6:7) Some religions incorporate the use of chants that are repeated
over and over for extended periods of time. Jesus called this “vain
repetitions.” This does not mean that it is wrong to pray repeatedly about
a certain need. For instance, Elijah prayed seven times for rain. Paul
prayed three times for God to remove his thorn in the flesh. Even Jesus
prayed the same prayer three times in the Garden of Gethsemane. Jesus simply
wanted us to avoid memorized, mechanical prayers that don’t come from the
heart.
Pray with persistence: After
Jesus concluded the pattern prayer in Luke 11, He told the Parable of the
Friend at Midnight. In the story, a man has a guest show up unexpectedly and
he comes to his neighbor’s house to borrow food to feed him. The neighbor
initially makes excuses and refuses to help him, but the friend persists.
Eventually, the neighbor gives him what he needs. The point is simple—if
persistence pays when requesting a favor from a reluctant friend at
midnight, how much more does persistence pay when petitioning a willing God?
Jesus followed the parable up with this famous verse, “Ask,
and it shall be given unto you; seek, and ye shall
find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you.” (Luke
11:9)
Pray with precision: “And
this is the confidence that we have in him, that, if we ask any thing according
to his will, he heareth us: And if we know that he hear us,
whatsoever we ask, we know that we have the petitions that we desired of
him.” (1 John 5:14-15) Prayer, like archery, involves aiming at and
hitting a target! The target in prayer is the will of God. James explained a
common cause for unanswered prayer, “Ye ask, and receive not, becauseye ask amiss, that ye may consume it upon your
lusts.” (James 4:3) God will not answer prayer that is inconsistent
with His will. The way to know the will of God is to stay immersed in
the Word of God. Jesus stated, “If ye abide in me, and my words
abide in you, ye shall ask what ye will, and it shall
be done unto you.” (John 15:7) Notice the conditional term “if.”
For if we truly abide in Him and His Word abides in us, we won’t want
anything that is contrary to His will. Let God’s Word guide your prayers
like arrows to the bullseye of His will. This will increase your
effectiveness and eliminate wasted time praying for the wrong things.
F. B. Myer astutely
observed, “The great tragedy of life is not unanswered prayer, but
unoffered prayer.” James added, “Ye have not, because ye ask not.”
(James 4:2) The words of an old hymn are fitting, “Oh what peace we often
forfeit, oh what needless pain we bear, all because we do not carry everything
to God in prayer.” May we all develop a greater discipline for daily
prayer. May we all follow the pattern for prayer that Jesus provided. May we all
utilize this key to the resources of heaven and realize how powerful an ally is
this priceless gift called prayer.